This is going to be a fun post. The girls in my office are always talking about relationship and boys and we've come to realize that there are certain things that are just not worth dealing with! So I thought it'd be a good idea to put together a list of my personal Top Ten Deal Breakers!
1) Deal Breaker #1: "Cheaping" is for chicklets.
No girl likes or wants to date a guy who cringes everytime he has to pull out his wallet. Give me a break. Yes we all have jobs now and don't need to wait around for a husband to bring home the check so we can buy weekly groceries. However, if you are trying to impress us, it's not going to happen when your face looks like you've just shat your pants when the bill arrives.
Now get this right - no woman I know, including myself is a gold digger. We're not looking for someone to pay our rent. We're looking for someone that can find the balance between thoughtfulness and generosity. Show us that we're worth the time, attention and money.
See, every girl I know is a real catch - we're smart, pretty, funny, and we love unselfishly. Every one of my girl friends either has a masters degree or is on their way to getting one which means they either make six figures or will make it once they get it. Or hello! They manage to make six figures without the additional years of schooling (U.T.~ That's mah gurl *finger snap*) It's going to take someone equally smart, handsome, funny, ambitious, and generous to make us swoon.
Women are generous by nature. Give us a little and we will give it back ten fold.
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So true, so true.
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